James Ian Ramage

1983 - 2006
LocationAyr
Age23 years
Date of Birth4/1983
Date of Death5/2006
Visitors2,092 since 30/08/2007
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James Ian Ramage(wee ramage).
25th April 1983-30th May 2006.
Age 23.
Fabricator.
Ayr Scotland.
James has 2 younger sisters,Ainsley 21 and Nikki 16.
Tragically taken from us in a car accident.


This is a tribute to my dear son James Ian Ramage(wee ramage)to his friends.James was tragically taken from us on 30th May 2006 in a car accident.He was a very loving and caring son that made me proud every day of his very short 23 years.He was a very intellegent young man,he attended Dalmilling primary and then Mainholm Academy in Ayr.He then attended Ayr College studying mechanical and electrical engineering where he gained his HND.He then worked for a local firm in Ayr (Newton Security Doors).His passions in life were his girlfriend Morgan,his family,his friends and his cars.He was always so full of life and eager to help any of his friends when they needed him,even if it was just to lend an ear or give some advice he was always there.I know,as has been proved over the past year many of his friends will stay loyal to James,still paying us a visit or phoning or texting us just to see how we are which is very comforting to us.James will always be remembered for the love of his precious vw polo(his baby)which in time we will be restoring for him in his memory.

As a baby he was so tiny and cute,and always so quiet and good,
As a boy he was full of fun,always laughing and joking around,
As a teenager he was always respectful,never in trouble
And as a young man he grew to be the son we were so proud of.

we will love and miss you every minute of every day james,you touched so many peoples hearts in a way that so few do.

love you always son,forever and a day wee man

MUM,DAD,AINSLEY,NIKKI,AND YOUR WEE DARLIN MORGAN XXXXX


For all the mums out their so lost without their child,here is a poem that has given me a little strength,hope you like it.

Mum,please don't feel guilty
it was just my time to go,
I see you are still feeling sad
and the tears just seam to flow.

We all come to earth for our lifetime,
and for some it's not many years.
I don't want you to keep crying
You are shedding so many tears.

I haven't really left you
even though it may seem so.
I have just gone to my heavenly home
And I'm so much closer than you know.

Just beleive that when you say my name
I'm standing right next to you,
I know you long to see me
but there is nothing I can do.

But I'll still send you messages
and hope you understand,
That when your time comes to "cross over"
I'll be there to take your hand.

I hope someone else can take comfort from this poem

another favourite poem is the one that was said at James's service which is called "when tomorrow starts without me".

When tomorrow starts without me,and I'm not there to see.
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,all filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn't cry,the way you did today.
Whilst thinking of the many things,we will never get to say.

I know how much you love me,as much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me,I know you'll miss me too.

So when tomorrow starts without me,please try to understand.
That an angel came and called my name,and took me by the hand.

And said my place was ready,in heaven far above.
And that I'd have to leave behind,all those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,a tear fell from my eye.
For all my life I'd always thought,I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,so much yet to do.
It seemed almost impossible,that I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,the good ones and the bad.
I thought of all the love we shared,and all the fun we had.

If I could re-live yesterday,just even for a while.
I'd say goodbye and kiss you,and maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realised,that this could never be.
For emptiness and memories,would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,I might miss come tomorrow. I thought of you and when I did,my heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heavens gate,I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,from his great golden throne.

He said "this is eternity and all I promised you".
Today your life on earth is passed,but here it starts anew.

I promise no tomorrow,for today will always last.
And since each day is the same,there's no longing for the past.

But you have been so faithful,so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,you knew you shouldn't do.

But you have been forgiven,and now at last your'e free.
So wont you take my hand,and share my life with me.

So when tomorrow starts without me,don't think we are far apart.
For everytime you think of me,I'm right there in your heart.

Author unknown



anyone who would like there photos done in a scrapbook page(see james's photo gallery, please contact me i will be only to glad to make them).please only use these if requested for your tribute to someone on this site thankyou.



























Gifts

Tributes

missing you

hi son, think of you each and every day, miss you and sometimes the hurt never seems to go away.

love
dad

Jean

September 30, 2011

happy new yr james

happy new yr james keep on raving

Kevin Fennessey

January 4, 2009

hi wee man,found a site full of lovely young people willing to help me with any questions about your polo,will have it shinin like a shillin for you son hope you like it when its finished.you would have loved this site because its all about polos.wish it could have been you to restore her i hope we make a good job for you.will add photos of its progress for you to see love you and miss you forever wee man xoxoxoxoxoxoxooxo mum

Jean (mum)

August 7, 2008

the hurt doesnt go away

not havin a very good time again,cant stop cryin,cant sleep.worried about your girl j please look after her wee man.we will fight on to get you justice son,cant let it drop will take them to court if need be.2 years and their still denying everything but i wont give up.miss your smile and your laughter and your grumpiness too.miss not havin a cuppa with you,miss everything.sometimes i sleep in your room son i hope you dont mind,i just feel some comfort there.i will say goodnight james cos i'll never say goodbye.love you so so much wee man my heart aches from morning till night and only you can make it better.xoxoxoxoxoxo nite nite son keep on ravin up there.ps..i bought the scooter cd for you put it in your room

love u forever
miss u for what will seem like an eternity
hugs n kisses
yer wee ma

Jean (mum)

July 7, 2008

wot i remember most is standing in my kitchen cooking the dinner and in you would come and talk to me about mechanics, wot did i know? i just nodded and agreed with you lovingly, Most importantly i remember the night you looked after me and the wonderful conversation we had, im glad we had that, you will understand, theres not a day goes by without us thinking about you or remembering a wee thing here and there, god bless james your in our hearts forever xx

Aunti Veeni (Aunt)

February 21, 2008

R.I.P sweetcheeks

Hey wee man thought ad leave ye a wee message. hope ur enjoying urself up there in paradise. a was mucking about online n came across this site. its quite good being able 2 tell loved ones how much ye miss them. u may b gone but u'll def never b forgotten. loadsa love bubble_nut lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shelly (Friend)

February 19, 2008

sweet dreams

miss u loads m8 take care up there sweet dreams xxxx

Carol-Anne

November 13, 2007

my boy dean will be with u look after each other rip wee man x

Kim Templeton

November 9, 2007

for james' mum

thank you so much for leaving the poem i took great comfort from it, i hope the guilt that i have felt for the last 10 years will ease soon

Angie-Androulla Ford-King

October 3, 2007

I love and miss you so much James

I love and miss you so much james,my heart breaks a little more each new day,there's not a day goes by without me wishing it had been me and not you son,its just not right no parent should have to bury a child.What's left of my heart aches so much,its so hard to sleep at night and its even harder to wake in the morning especially when you wish you wouldn't,you wake and the hurt begins all over again.Sorry for me getting upset all the time ,i know you wouldn't like to see me this way but i can't help it james,you know what you meant to me son you were my life,my heart and my soul.I walk this earth but i am so dead inside without you here.I miss yout cheeky wee grin,and your laugh and your asking for a coffee all the time,i miss there being only 4 dinner plates instead of 5,I miss not hearing your music playing even though you used to play it so loud the house is just so silent without you.time to go today james cant control my sobbing now.

It may seem that we are far apart
but you are so close within my heart.

love you always son
goodnight never goodbye

mum xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Jean

September 3, 2007
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